Vance Berry
6/6/17
Reflection 1

I thought I knew what tranquility was before I came over seas to Grado. But since then, I realized I had no idea. Everyone and everything is slowed down. The pace the people stroll down the street, time spent sitting at cafés, the elegance and fluidity of the language all showed me first hand that this is true tranquility. 

I went abroad with the mindset that I will fully emerge myself in the culture of the town, I just didn't know exactly what that culture would turn out to be. I do this by making friends with everyone I can at the bar, setting up plans during the day with the locals, or stopping by to say hi to a friend while they're at work. What these people have taught me was the art of enjoying everything that is before you. For example, on our free day, Michael invited my friends and I on his boat. We met him on the dock in Grado where he dropped a pin. After getting some gas from the station, we set off along the coast to Barbana. On the water, Michael introduced us to his Italian summer music selection. His tunes were very good and had the same vibe of American house/ tropical house but we obviously didn't know what the singers were saying. Once we got to the island, the tranquility I felt that day was very strong. People were lounging with friends and family outside on picnic tables- eating gelato or casually drinking. Our crew went into the church on the holy island and we walked right in mid-service. We hung around in the back and listened- it was the most beautiful church we had been in to me. After the church and Italian sermon, we go to the bar to get a bottle of prosecco, grappa, and gelato. We brought the tray out to a nice shady spot by the water, sat down, and talked about anything and everything for hours. This was the most leisurely and relaxed sit-down I have had experienced on this trip so far. I found common interests in TV shows and music with Michael and it was interesting to see how someone from across the globe has had similar influences on me.  Later that day when we got back to Grado, we wanted to continue the emersion into the culture by playing “beach volley” with Michaels’ friends. One of them spoke English and I talked to him about the IT jobs market in Italy and talked about his job in insurance. 

Back home, I wouldn't really do this with my friends. Whenever we do get together, we feel like we have to plan ahead to have something to do. Italy has taught me to slow down, enjoy every moment, and just roll with things as they come up. Theres something beautiful in that. One important thing that comes from slowing down is the ability to appreciate. So far, I can tell I have changed by slowing down my meals, drink, and speech. Since then, I have been able to more fully enjoy the culture that Italy has to offer.

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